Congratulations, you’re engaged! Now that you have found the one, you need to start making plans for your big day. This is both an exciting and stressful time. With websites like Reddit and Facebook running pages that may shame your decisions, such as “Bridezillas” or “That’s it I’m Wedding Shaming,” planning your special day has become that much more stressful. Avoid being wedding-shamed and find your way to the altar with this handy guide of four easy ways to survive wedding planning with style.
Find Your Forever Rings
Before you get engaged, take the time to discuss with your partner what sort of engagement ring you want. Whether it’s a solitaire band or another style, consider the cut and origin of the stone as well. Avoid being ring-shamed for not being upfront with your partner about your expectations. Make sure to discuss what budget you both are comfortable with before any purchases are made. Brides and grooms alike are tossing old standards for engagement ring costs, and rather choosing rings that match their personalities. So, have clear expectations with your partner about budget and style. This ring is a promise to each other, make sure that both you and your love understand what you’re expecting before purchasing.
Get the Perfect Photographer
Choosing a photographer is a very important decision. From engagement photos to photos on the day, these pictures will be a part of your wedding memories forever. Choosing the right photographer can be an expensive endeavor. However, choosing to go with a friend or family member may leave you with photos that are not up to your standard. Rather than getting shamed for bad photos, or being called a “Choosing Beggars” for trying to find a way to make your photos affordable, take advantage of some of the helpful tips available. No matter who you choose to work with, make sure that your wedding photos reflect your personality. Finally, when you look at which photos to go with, be sure to choose ones that truly embrace all the quality available to you.
Manage Your Inner Bridezilla
It is no secret planning your wedding will be stressful. One of the easiest ways to lose out on your style is by becoming a bridezilla. You are going to be under a lot of pressure from family, friends and vendors, and getting lost in the stress is easier than you would expect. Take the time to check-in with yourself and look for ways to de-stress before you tie the knot. Keep track of yourself with some needed reality checks and breaks as you plan the ceremony. If you ever feel lost, take the time to discuss with your partner what you are going through. This will allow you to get an outside perspective from the person you love and trust the most. The last thing you want to see is someone you trust venting about your behavior in a public forum.
Become a Fashion Do
Nothing says a wedding more than the fashion. Being stylish for a wedding does not mean you need to forego what makes you and your partner unique. Sites like Pinterest are a great resource to look for ways to keep your style, without compromising on class. One of the best ways to ensure your wedding is well-styled is by working with your bridal party and listening to their feedback. By getting some other opinions, you can get a sounding board on how your clothing choices sound. You don’t want to be the bride that forces your party in ill-fitting or unflattering clothes. Remember, your wedding party is there to support you and help you shine brighter.
Planning a wedding is stressful, you will get overwhelmed with the multitude of decisions and expenses that you will face. However, as long as you the person you love is next to you to keep you grounded, everything else will be okay. You are going to look amazing.
